what really matters!!!

On By Happy soul


All my life I was dying to be loved.. I thought feeling loved and not being alone is the achievement and key to be happy!so I was living my life loving myself (of course) ,spending time with my friends and cousins ,enjoying every single moment and developing myself so that I can be a better person to be loved. I thought not wasting time in regrets and taking decisions on my own and feeling peace in my mind and heart is the happiness one can find. And …I still think that’s the way of living life ..coz I feel satisfied by the way I lived ..I felt good and I feel good right now.

But the only thing I was worried and scared about is loneliness. I realized I never wanted to be lonely.there is difference between being alone and being lonely!I can be alone by myself ,do my stuff ,live a happy life (coz I love myself) but I cannot and never wanted to be lonely ..my family my friends were the most important part for my life specially my friends because I spent more time with them rather then my family(its only because I love to hangout and travel :p)as I grew up I never changed mentally only developed with new and better ideas. I fell in love and made my love life a mess.. But still I was happy I was not lonely ,as time passes I started losing friends ,I realized there’s a huge difference between our opinions and moral values.I decided to be seperate from those thoughts. Coz if u don’t want to be crap then stay away from crap!! That’s what I learned.Positive energies must be ones first priority to live in peace.

My best friend got married this month and moving another city. It is hard but it is bearable pain ..all I learned in every stage you will face some difficulties or you can say challenges and its totally depends on you how you take challenges and still inspire urself in so many ways.

I choose to stay with who really matters for me.. My family ..my love of life who lives in another country :/ ,my real friends .. But I don’t feel lonely ..I only feel alone sometimes which I love to spend on myself!

People should not feel lonely ,find new ways to be with their loved ones and be with them who really matters.

And Do what really matters! 🙂

33 thoughts on “what really matters!!!”

  4. reflectionofdes

    Sometimes, I have moments like this too. I hate being lonely most of the time. I guess that’s why I always try to find new friends to talk to. I hope things eventually turn out the way you want them to.

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    1. Yes!its actually depends on us how we want to see ourselves..obviously happy and healthy.and only one person do that! That’s us!!so we have to do all the things makes us happy..whenever i feel alone i write,paint,go for a trip ,make my wish list, treat myself …i do what i always wanted to ..thats makes me happy 🙂 do yours!that’s how we inspire ourselves to live a happy life 🙂

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  5. An honest and heartfelt first post. With those attributes you’re guaranteed to be a huge hit here. There’s a subtle difference between loneliness and being alone. The latter is something I often crave while the former sucks! Never pressure yourself into love though. That’s how you introduce trouble and heartache.
    Check out my blog sometime and see what you think. I’ll keep my eye out for future posts from yourself 🙂

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      2. I’ll keep that in my mind 😀 and I like the way u said “nevert sell you self out” that is something I’ll never gonna do ..I have my own values and morals..So,our thoughts matched here! Hi 5 😀

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  6. How very true! Actually my first site title for my blog was “What Matters” because part of the reason why I started blogging was to share some of my experiences and reflections on what really matters to me… Eventually, I changed my site title to “The Burrow” because… I don’t know? I think I’m just trying out and still finding my niche here. Tbh I am still thinking of changing my site title again… Lol. Anyway, great post!

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  8. A fresh start is a good start… & your on to something by keeping positive vibes around! your thoughts can create reality… down to the folks your surround yourself with.. continue on the road to greatness you’ll accomplish many things!

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  11. I haven’t been alone in my whole life, but most of the time I feel lonely. It isn’t the same been with a friend that have somebody to love. To feel butterfly dancing inside you is wonderful. I had that one’s and lost it. It hit me so hard that I was afraid of falling in love. Now I am ready for that sensation all need is the right woman. Your time will come because everybody deserves to be loved. So, stay strong and good luck.

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    1. I know how much it hurts when you love someone so hard to hurt yourself and can’t be with him/her .moving on takes time. Hope you will find your right woman with all your heart ❤ that's how life goes on.. With happy ending 🙂 good luck to u too!

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  12. I am a loner, always have been, I married a loner, how do two loners get together and build a great life together, I don’t really know it just happened, I love to spend time alone, I am never lonely, I like my own company. I feel if you like your own company you can be alone and not lonely. I also am never bored

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    1. Exactly! You got me.its totally depends on us how we want to see ourself-alone but happy or lonely and sad! Positivity always makes things better. Loving ourself and prioritize people and thing that matters simply makes our life wonderful! 🙂

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